Mind Stories Work Wonders

Your brain: Past, present and future “Your brain doesn’t distinguish between what’s happening in the present moment and what you’re experiencing as you retell a story about the past. Neuroscientists are discovering that at a synaptic level, a real and a recalled event both register in the neocortex and the limbic system in the same […]

The Path of Love

When we are in love with love rather than with an object, in love with the process of love rather than the content, we can feel that we are always in love, a love without conditions. How can we practice that? We can practice turning our attention away from the conversation in the head aimed […]

A Cluttered Mind

Cleaning up our mental house “Your mind can be likened to a house that has been cluttered over the years with thousands of unnecessary pieces of furniture, pictures, ornaments, and other things, all strewn around and piled everywhere. The result is that, although the outside of the house may present a good appearance, the inside […]

Everything is Interconnected

yada No Retreat On the night of the Buddha’s enlightenment, he is said to have understood that everything is completely interconnected and interdependent. Therefore it is impossible for anybody to go on retreat from the world. Everybody knows that when you go on retreat, the whole world, no matter how tiny your retreat cabin, is […]

Self-Compassion is Embracing Imperfection

I attended a day-long retreat at Spirit Rock Meditation Center last Saturday with my daughter. The subject of the retreat was Self-Compassion and Emotional Resilience. In the end, I realized that having self-compassion is embracing imperfection in myself and in others. Embrace Imperfection My practice is teaching me to embrace imperfection: to have compassion for […]

Healing verses Cure

Dear Jerome, You might hear banter about how you can heal yourself. But what if you’re still sick? Does that mean you’re not doing a good job of self-healing? Let me teach you something critical. There’s a difference between healing and curing. To heal means to restore wholeness. To cure means to eliminate disease. Here’s […]

Quieting the Mind

QUIETING THE MIND BY DEGREES “In short, “getting it together” requires slowing the mind. Quieting the mind means less thinking, calculating, judging, worrying, fearing, hoping, trying, regretting, controlling, jittering or distracting. The mind is still when it is totally here and now in perfect oneness with the action and the actor. It is the purpose […]

Challenges are Clues

Challenges are clues that there is some suffering in our lives that we are not addressing properly. It may relate to our health, or wealth, or our general well-being. The way around them is to look deeply into our hearts and recognize the challenges for what they are. This way, we can apply our mindfulness […]

An Evening of Mindfulness

On Thursday, September 24, I offered an evening of mindfulness in Santa Monica on Healing Cancer with Meditation. The evening was made possible by the generous support of Alicia Dunams who made all the arrangements and provided the support staff. The evening of mindfulness coincided with the launch of my new book, Healing the the […]

Take the Cancer Quiz

Take the Cancer Quiz to Find Out How Not to Get this Dreaded Disease As you probably know, I am a cancer survivor for almost nineteen years. My son is a cancer survivor for 39 years. You may also know that we used the Seven Principles of Mindfulness in Healing to thrive and succeed in […]